I am so excited about the outfits found in this SWAP.  If you missed last week, we’re in the middle of a three week “SWAP” – Shopping With A Purpose.  These are with my real live friends/guinea pigs.  Last week you met Brandy and watched her discover pieces to upgrade her wardrobe to executive career.  The other conundrum Brandy faced during our SWAP was polishing up her casual Friday.  Brandy is the only woman in her office.  Additionally, her boss doesn’t office in town.  So Fridays in her office are really casual.  But as you’ve heard me say, you just never know when you’re going to bump into someone who could impact your career, so you have to dress the part.  EVEN on casual Fridays (especially then because those can unravel pretty quickly if you get too casual).

Brandy needed to exchange her pale jeans for a darker trouser jean and have other options on rotation besides jeans and casual tops.  Well, she hit it out of the park.  You saw that a few of the blazers she found last week could be paired with jeans.  But she found this gorgeous blazer (Ann Taylor Loft), which I wanted to buy so badly but I have no shopping budget right now, and it just looked spectacular when sitting atop a dark rinse jean (Talbot’s) for casual Friday:

In addition, she found a few good pieces which she can mix and match, including this simple royal blue top and perfect length patterned pencil skirt (both Ann Taylor) which she can pair with kitten heels for casual Friday:

What is critical if your casual Friday has lost some of its sheen is to add a few basic pieces which you can build on – a dark wash trouser jean, a couple of fun/bolder blazers or a cardigan, a simple skirt – A line or pencil depending on your figure type, and some simple blouses that are not t-shirts.  Stay tuned next week for our other friend Julie’s SWAP feature and make sure to send me any SWAP ideas you have.

The next several Fashion Fridays are going to feature a real life SWAP – SWAP stands for “Shopping With A Purpose!”  A few of my darling friends gave me their current work wardrobe conundrums and I took them shopping at the Houston Galleria with the sole purpose of solving them.  In the process, we had a blast.

So both this week’s and next week’s post will feature my friend Brandy since she had two conundrums: (1) looking like an executive for upcoming meetings on the East Coast with senior executives in the company and (2) polishing up her casual Friday.  We’ll look at No. 2′s conundrum next week, but this week here is the issue: Brandy holds a managerial level position with even more potential and she needs her wardrobe to communicate the gravitas and confidence that she in fact possesses when she travels for a week of meetings with company executives.  The third SWAP week will feature an entirely different issue that my friend Julie needed resolved.  (And let me know if you have an issue that needs the SWAP treatment – I’d love to feature the resolution.)

Here’s the girls after a successful shopping excursion.  The three of us spent four hours shopping at a handful of stores that I knew would have professional options: Nordstrom’s, Ann Taylor and Loft, Banana Republic, Talbots, and J. Crew.  I asked Brandy a few questions to understand how to best focus our shopping efforts for that executive look.  When I asked what her favorite feature(s) is she decided her overall feminine look because she is petite with curves and long hair.  That means she also likes to dress in feminine clothes – skirts over pants, patterns over boring neutrals.  Her least favorite feature(s) when shopping is her being right on the cusp of petite – things are either too short or too long but she can almost never find things that fit without needing tailoring.  Plus, because of her curves, even work outfits can look racy if she’s not careful.

So you can see from these responses that the last thing she needed was masculine navy pinstripe pants suit for these executive meetings.  Plus, she doubted the attendees would be very formally suited.  Fortunately, she’s not scared of patterns or colors which gave us a lot of options to infuse confidence and luxury into her look while still keeping her feminine.

I didn’t get a great shot of this lovely modern navy skirt suit and floral blouse we found for the most formal meetings, but here are a few great blazers that she can throw on with neutral trousers and really look the part – effortless chic, not too matchy-matchy, and modern career woman (ignore pants/tees, she was just trying the blazers, from Nordstrom’s and Talbot’s, respectively):

So it may be difficult to tell from the first picture, but this blazer was really unique.  It had interesting detailing around the collar and the shoulders, and a yellow color was sewn in alongside the white which made the jacket interesting and versatile.  Brandy is already petite, but particularly short from shoulder to waist, so cropped jackets looked great on her.  Because she has such curves, she didn’t have to worry about these jacket shapes making her look boxy.  Each of these jackets had something interesting about it – an embellishment, a unique color, and interesting trim – that made it look sharper than a simple navy or tan blazer.  Both could be paired with pencil skirts or modern fitted trousers and some simple accessories.  She did get a simple one button taupe jacket that will be perfect with navy or black trousers or a patterned pencil skirt and a hot pink or blue shell.

Here’s a couple of looks she found for her office, which is business casual, but weren’t quite as executive as she needed for her meetings next week:

The first is a lovely navy peplum top from Banana Republic that accentuates her small waist with a lovely subdued patterned pencil skirt.  The second is a simple floral sheath dress from Ann Taylor with a cropped black scalloped blazer she could throw on with this dress for work or with jeans to go out at night.  This dress isn’t for all seasons, but it was on sale so it made sense to buy for Houston’s long summers.

The great thing about this shopping excursion is that while we were looking for specific stand out pieces, she was able to upgrade her entire work wardrobe on a pretty reasonable budget.  You’ll hear more next week, but overall she got: six blazers (one with the suit, three pictured above, as well as the taupe and a tangerine patterned one), five blouses/shells, one pair of jeans, one pair of trousers, two skirts (one suit skirt) and one dress.

These were her closing remarks the day after the shopping spree, “I learned I look better in skirts and dresses.  I look lousy in pants and oversized loose fitting stuff.  I love colors and prints.  I need to try lots of things on since I stink at guessing what might work for me.  Gindi says I am a “spring!” Ha!”  (Author note: She looks fine in trousers and she is a spring if you ever had your colors done by season.)

I was reading a cool corporate fashion blog the other day and got some great ideas.  The author suggested purchasing a dark suit when trying to upgrade your look to get the next promotion, raise, or job opportunity.  I love this simple idea. 

This is why: even if your career doesn’t traditionally feature suits, they come with staple pieces.  A lovely sheath dress.  A perfect pair of trousers.  A well cut blazer.  A simple pencil skirt.  These items, in black or navy or grey, are imperative to have in your working wardrobe if you want to achieve the next benchmark. 

Buy them in a size that fits.  Try a bunch on.  Shop at a number of different stores because everyone designs for different shaped models.  Even if you have had a basic “interview” or “big client” suit in your closet for years, it might warrant getting a new one that looks modern and fresh. 

Also, because these are going to be staple items that you can mix and match for work every week, it bears spending a little more money on these items than your flavor of the month on-trend blouse.  Here’s where my money is for solid suiting:

J. Crew – I would wait til they run a sale, but I think this grey pinstripe suit is so perfect.  Professional, gorgeous deep hue of gray, and it reads executive (minus pushed up sleeves) but modern. 

Ann Taylor – I have a love-hate relationship with Ann Taylor.  But this season they are back to do lovely classic suiting pieces.  I’m nuts about this heather gray suit – it’s in a tropical wool which will fall beautifully on your figure and can be worn year round, plus they have coordinating items in both trousers and pencil skirts.  They also have this classic looking navy suit that I’d just need to see up close to make sure there wasn’t too much of a sheen to the fabric, but I love the cut. 

Bloomingdale’s – I know we don’t have one in Houston, but I love Bloomingdale’s.  I shopped there when I went to Manhattan but you can order on-line regardless of where you are.  They have the full price spectrum too.  For example, this classic T Tahari black skirt suit is less than $200 for both pieces whereas this killer Hugo Boss suit will set you back over $600 (triplet mommas have to settle for drooling over Hugo Boss instead of buying). 

The point is that you can upgrade your look at any price point and you should own staple pieces in neutral colors for that last-minute go-to invitation from the boss.  Keep up the good work!

Nearly every week I have one day to evening thing for work.  A cocktail hour, an after work meeting, a dinner, a charity event, a monthly girls meet up, and on and on.

One of my monthly girls event friends emailed me to ask how to make that easy.  Does she change shoes? Handbags? Jewelry? Make up? Or does it involve a whole outfit?  That’s why I mentioned last week, when unpacking random invitation code, that I’d tackle this day to evening topic this week!

Well, I’m all about easy, so I try to make it super easy on days when I have those transitions.  If it is a business attire work event like a dinner or cocktail hour, then you probably don’t have to do a thing.  Your work outfit, on the nicer side, and a bit of freshening up of your make up will take you straight to the event. 

But a lot of other events, mixers, industry events, girls nights, or even dates (with hubby or a new guy for the unmarried working woman) do warrant an upgrade.  This is what I will usually do:

1. Wear a nicer blouse under a dark blazer to work and then take the blazer off after work for the event.

2.  Pack dangling earrings or a fun necklace in a smaller handbag.  I have a simple black faux crocodile clutch that I use for my evening events.  I toss it under my seat with a dressier pair of earrings when I get in the car in the morning.

3.  Wear heels to work.  If you have a job where you’re on your feet a lot, then throw heels into the car when you toss in the clutch. 

4.  Pack real make up in the clutch too.  I actually don’t carry make up with me.  Just lipstick and powder.  So I throw in blush, mascara, and eyeliner into my clutch with the jewelry so I can freshen up because I’m likely leaving at 5:30 after having put my make up on at 7 am.  It needs a refresher. 

Here’s what I did two weeks ago for a nice dinner after a work meeting (note simple black work pants, I wore the blouse under my blazer and peep toe heels to work, I just tossed the long necklace in with that black clutch and put on heavier make up).

Here’s some great options, that are reasonable, to transition your normal daytime work attire into evening:

 Silver python clutch, $27

Gray clutch, $44

Black & white clutch, $28

Croc clutch, on sale for $18

 

Grotto pendant necklace, $38

Coral and silver strand necklace, $65

Mint circle necklace, $28

Bone peep toe pump, $50

Red peep toe pump, $50

Silver peep toe pump, $40

 Let me know what you do when going from work to an event.

What on earth happened to black tie optional?  Or business attire?  Everyone wants to be original now when they send their event invitations.  I am not kidding about some of the stuff I see.  I got an invitation to a gala at a fancy hotel serving a seated dinner that said Fashionably Mod.  Excuse me?  What is that?  My girlfriend just got one that said Angelic Cocktail?  She sent me an email that said, “Am I supposed to wear wings and a halo?”

There’s beach casual and urban casual and dressy casual.  Is the first flip flops and shorts?  Is the second a black matte jersey dress?  Is the third a satin halter dress?  What the what?  Not to mention all the invitations that come themed out with no indication as to attire……

 

Then there’s Texas chic, festive, California casual, black & white, reunion ready, creative, and so forth and so on.  Well, I can’t crack the code for everything, but here’s a few practical tips to decode the ever increasing coded invitations – always base it on the what, when, and where.

 1.  When is it?  If it’s an evening event with a seated dinner, especially gala style, dress up regardless of what the invite says.  Don’t wear a floor length gown unless it says formal, black tie, or similar, but a unique black cocktail dress (or grey or navy or something relatively sedate) is always a safe bet.  Even if you’re not spot on with attire, you won’t stick out.  For my angelic cocktail attire friend, the party was an evening event at a fancy club, so I told her to wear a lovely ruched navy cocktail dress she’d bought for a work evening awards event.  For my gala, I wore a grey cocktail dress with 3D abstract tulle flowers.  (Charity event, not work event.)

If it’s a day time event, most of the time you can wear business attire – a suit or a nice pair of trousers with pretty blouse.   If it’s a morning brunch, then a pretty dress or skirt and blouse combo is perfect (for a reception or a shower).

2.  What is it?  Is it for business or pleasure?  Huge difference.  Next week we’re going to talk a little about how to go from day to evening seamlessly and will address the distinction in more detail, but a flashy or revealing cocktail dress or party outfit should always be eliminated for a work event.  If the invite says festive, then wear a red silk blouse with a black pencil skirt for a work holiday party.  (Not a skin-tight sequin mini dress or ugly Christmas sweater.)  Is it a large charity gala?  A small wedding ho-down?  A networking event for 500 women?  There will also be some clues to “what” the event is and what the host is after on attire by the invitation: fun and playful or formal script; an evite or letterpress on parchment.  Use these clues to dictate your attire.

3.  Where is it?  If it’s a seated dinner at a farm renovated barn, then the attire is going to look different from a seated dinner at a boutique urban hotel.  Is it in an intimate loft?  Or in someone’s backyard?  Is it at a country club or hotel?  Is it cocktails at a restaurant or lunch at a park?  These will all inform the formality of your dress.  When in doubt, dress up a step.  Skip jeans unless you’re at a rodeo or barbeque. 

 

  

Remember, you can always ask.  Often times you can call the host and just inquire.  I know that’s not always possible for large-scale events and business affairs.  Going with a friend?  Make sure at least the two or four or six of you are aligned on attire so you don’t stick out   And have fun!