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Gindi Vincent

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Leading Past the Fear

March 25, 2014 by Gindi 5 Comments

Over the next several Tuesdays, we’re going to return to the theme of leadership.  Sometimes in the context of opportunities.  Sometimes obstacles.  And sometimes doing some real life makeovers just like our Total Leadership Transformations in the book (Learning to Lead).

Today, we’ll tackle when leading, or the chance to lead, has you shaking in your boots.

When I interviewed Diane Yu from NYU for the book, I appreciated her candor.  The first thing she shared with me was a that leadership IS HARD.  Not for the faint of heart.

There’s this idea that leadership is all success and prestige and honor.

But leadership can mean loneliness, hard decisions, intense pressure, and tremendous responsibility.

Fortunately, she went on to say that you should still lead if given the chance.  Just go in prepared for what’s ahead.

Very recently, I was given the opportunity to lead in a way and within a timeline that was completely unexpected for me.  Do you know what my reaction was?  Nausea.  Fear.  A strong desire to step back and say, “no thanks, I’m not ready for this.”  My closest friends were encouraging me and cheering me on while I was ready to tuck tail and run.

The opportunity, on its face, was exciting.  But there was some quantifiable risk that accompanied the opportunity.  Unpredictable personalities and an unknown outcome.

Some days, you feel ready to tackle those challenges with abandon.  However, given the fact that I’d had to tackle a fair number of new leadership opportunities this past year, this challenge just left me tired.  Ready for a little of the familiar.  The low risk way of life despite the low return.

I took the challenge anyway. 

As you know if you’ve read this blog at all in the past, I am a strong believer that these opportunities come from God.  Not as a result of luck or timing or karma, but because God has a plan for my life and this is part of how He would like to use me.  This is not to say that you shouldn’t say no to certain opportunities.  You absolutely MUST say no to certain opportunities so that you can make room for the yeses that matter.  This was a yes that mattered.  This was a yes that, if I took it, could show others that God can do big things.  Because there’s no way, on any normal timeline or in any normal circumstances, I should have this opportunity.

So I said yes.  I still felt completely nauseous.  I still do.  I’m still shaking.  But with great (smart) risk, comes great reward.

{Today I’m linking up as a part of the God-sized Dreams link up on how to dream when you’re scared!}

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  1. alecia says

    March 25, 2014 at 9:24 am

    SO very proud of you!! And I can’t wait to see how God is going to work EVERYTHING out for your GOOD!!

    Reply
    • Gindi says

      March 27, 2014 at 7:28 pm

      Thank you so much Alecia – God is faithful.

      Reply
  2. Shavonnah Schreiber says

    March 26, 2014 at 12:17 pm

    Great post! I heard recently, courage is not the absence of fear, it’s moving forward inspite of the fear. Leaders (good ones) have courage to do things afraid.

    Reply
    • Gindi says

      March 27, 2014 at 7:28 pm

      That is it! Scared is the new brave!

      Reply

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